FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS is in vogue, no one wants an entanglement or to commit to anybody. Commitment requires a lot of sacrifices and patience.
Most people find that draining. So they go for the easy ride. Most people want the freedom of being single yet want the benefits that come with a relationship.
I once knew a guy who told me he won’t need a girlfriend just a friend who is matured enough to handle adult sorts.
And what would those sorts be?
Okay; let me be plain’ he said. I want us to be friends with benefit. I felt embarrassed and angry till a friend of Mine told me of a guy who told her he has a girlfriend but he will love them to be friends.
Thinking it was ordinary friends until he told her it was friends with benefits. Then it was all over the internet. I think they already renamed it BESTIE.
The annoying thing is they tag it Being matured (that part I still don’t get). When do fooling around with someone till they get a better person because you aren’t enough to be committed to becoming mature?
The true remains many people love it and we see it as no big deal. For how long will one engage in hide and seek acts knowing you will always get cut. For me is like someone playing with fire because the possibility of one falling in love will always be there and it the rejection hurt much more. One must want more and it get complicated.
But how do someone invest in a business that clearly won’t yield profit?